You may be inclined to view others as either friends or enemies or feeling you must be dependent or completely independent without knowing how to balance these dualities. You may unconsciously also project your insecurities and fears onto the parent you perceive as weaker or less of an ally, while idolizing the other and aspiring to be like them. One is likely to be your hero while the other may be the target of blame, at least in your own mind. Your are likely to have a dichotomous, all or nothing view of your parents. You may be surprised to later learn that not all relationships are as fundamentally supportive and balanced as the one you experienced growing up in your family. The template formed in your early life is likely to help you succeed and you may be so fortunate as to not fully recognize that not everyone had the solid foundation you had. Others may marvel at how close your relationship is with your parents and how easily you trust in your abilities of confidence and nurturing. You may have no secrets from them and feel that they have been transparent guides for you as well. Your relationship with your parents is friendly, nurturing and open. As a result of having to work harder to attain integration, you are likely to take this process and what you gain from it, seriously. This frustration can lead you to challenge yourself when it comes to healing and relationships. You may feel ongoing tension in your relationships with others until you recognize the underlying discomfort you have with your own masculine (ambitious, creative, assertive) and feminine (nurturing, empathic, emotional) energies. Negative patterns from the relationship with your parents might resurface with your romantic relationships. You might have identified with one of your parents much more than the other, or one of them was more important while raising you and you kept the other in the shadow of your consciousness. Your parents had some level of incompatibility, or at least that’s what you have perceived since you were a child. This integration of the feminine and masculine images contributes essentially to happy romantic relationships. You are comfortable relating with both genders, which mirrors the inner absence of conflicts regarding genders roles. Your parents motivate you and encourage you to be yourself without imposing their desires on you.ĭuring your childhood, both of your parents played out their roles accordingly, nurtured you and made you feel safe. You developed skills and gifts from both parents that can bring success in your professional career and relationships. Your relationship with your parents has been supportive, having a positive impact on your development. You are highly influenced by the mother image, the past, family and you have deeply rooted habits. You’ve integrated the masculine and feminine qualities in yourself. The messages your parents send you are clear and reflect their alignment with each other. However, you possibly had a happy childhood and might have become responsible and independent at a very young age due to your parents’ education, and you feel very comfortable with that. One of your parents acted both the maternal and paternal roles and was more up front at parenting or stronger than the other.
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